Thinking about divorce is one of the biggest decisions a person can make, and rushing into it can have lasting consequences.
In this episode of the Boston Barrister Podcast, Attorney Kevin Patrick Seaver discusses the important questions every person should ask before filing for divorce. He explains why there is no universal answer, the importance of understanding your goals, and why taking time to reflect before making a life-changing decision can make all the difference.
Attorney Seaver also shares practical advice on communication, therapy, marriage counseling, parenting during divorce, dividing assets, child custody, child support, alimony, and why keeping conflict out of the courtroom often leads to better outcomes for everyone involved, especially children.
Whether you’re considering divorce or simply want to understand the process, this episode offers thoughtful guidance on approaching one of life’s most difficult decisions.
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Transcript:
So recently I had a gentleman call me, very wealthy, very unhappy because his wife had had an affair, okay? So the affair is just a symptom of the relationship. So we talked and that’s when I realized he did not wanna get divorced. And so we had a real heart to heart. And I asked him, I said, “When was the last time “you were on a date with your wife?” And he looked at me and looked around the room, up and down and inside and out. He says, “Date?” He says, “What’s that?” And I looked at him and I said, “Exactly. “And that’s why you’re getting divorced. “You are not minding the store. “And if you don’t mind the store, “your wife’s gonna go on what you did, shopping elsewhere, “where she will get what she needs.” Now I readily admit that an affair is a very tricky topic for everyone and anyone that have a date. There’s no right or wrong answers what you do with it, what you don’t do with it. Now I’ve been told about affairs many times by clients in my office. And each and every situation, because each and every person is separate, distinct and apart, like a snowflake or a fingerprint. And so one size does not fit all. Now the ads, never will. So I always tell clients before they go on this journey, call Divorce, they go find their place in the sun. And there’s a band out there called Pablo Cruz.
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